Susan Kaying Pha is the President and CEO of Pha Publishing and Author of Hmong Names. She started her publishing company to share her books with others, with the hope that it will inspire and empower people.
 
Before this, she was a Real Estate Broker with over 16 years of experience in the Residential Real Estate industry. She lives in Minneapolis, MN with her husband, four children, and her huge extended family.
 
hmong names
Hmong Names  1st Edition, has over 7,000 Hmong Names in 450 pages. It includes the name meanings, spellings in English, White Hmong, and Hmong Leng. It also goes over the history of Hmong names, name trends, Hmong clan/ last names and a list of some of the most famous and influential Hmong names.
This is an important book for the Hmong people, because it is the first Hmong Name book in history. It conveys the importance of Hmong names to the Hmong people and their identity. A celebration of Hmong names.
Annie:  What motivated and inspired you to write and publish a book?
Susan:  I am inspired by the extraordinary experiences, rich stories, and deep history of my Hmong people.  I believe that we must write our own Hmong history and stories, because we have to live with what is written about us. We must take responsibility for the writing of our Hmong history and stories.
Annie:  Specifically when did you decide or realize you want to have a book?
Susan:  I decided one morning over 10 years ago that I wanted to write a book, after hearing to my mom talk all night until the early morning about her extraordinary life in Laos and Thailand. I knew I had to document it so that it can be shared with others. Looking at my mom, a petite, polite, and soft spoken Hmong woman, you could never have guessed the brave, courageous and heroic life she had led. At that moment I thought, Wow! What a powerful Hmong woman she is. What inspired me was that there were so many Hmong woman with unique but similar powerful stories like my mother’s that if it were not told or documented would have never been shared with others. What a shame that would be, because there is so much we can learn from their experience and life.
Annie:  How did you decide to write about Hmong names? What inspired that?
Susan:  In November of 2009, I was pregnant with my 3rd child.  At that time, My mother-in-law had passed away, so for the first time, we had to come up with a Hmong name for our child.  In my search for a Hmong name, I discovered hundreds of requests online from Hmong people all over, asking for suggestions of Hmong names.  Like me, they too were seeking Hmong names for their child, but there were little resource anywhere.  After many weeks of research and collecting names from people I knew, I had close to 400 nhames.  In my quest and journey to find a Hmong name for my new baby, I was so inspired by what I had learned that I decided I was going to write a Hmong name book.  That was the moment I began to write the book Hmong Names.
Annie:  What were the first few steps you took to start and prepare you to write this book?
Susan:
First, I researched. I looked for any existing information, materials, or books about Hmong Names. I read everything I could find on the subject of Hmong Names.
Second, I solicited counsel from wise Hmong elders I knew. I asked them questions about our Hmong names and history. I listened to them tell me stories from over a half century ago. I went over information that I had found through research for authentication.
Third, I researched similar books to the one I wanted to write for ideas. I looked at the book’s structure, layout, and contents.
Annie:  How long did it take you to write this book?
Susan:   3 years of research and writing, plus an additional year to publish.
Annie:  What have been your biggest challenges so far with this experience?
Susan:  My biggest challenge was learning to read and write the Hmong language.  I spoke Hmong, but prior to writing this book I did not know how to read or write in Hmong.
Annie:  How did you overcome these challenges?
Susan:  I was intensely determined to understand, read and write Hmong names that I knew I had to learn the written Hmong language. I took a class to learn how to read and write Hmong. For months  I studied and read books written in Hmong. The written Hmong language  is still a challenge for me, but I remain inspired and committed to continually learning it.
Annie:  What do you love about this experience?
Susan:  Writing this book, gave me the gift of clarity of my own understanding of my Hmong identity and history. I am absolutely captivated and moved by all I’ve learned. I love it!
Annie:  What advice would you give to others who may be thinking about having a book too?
Susan:
1. Start writing! Make a decision and a commitment to start writing. Write whatever, whenever, however. It does not have to be perfect. Just start writing. There will be plenty of time for editing and rewriting later. Just start writing now! Don’t wait, or it will always be something you always wanted to do, but never did.
2. You do not have to be a gifted writer to write. Writing is about sharing. The sharing of human experiences, thoughts and ideas.  It is not all about perfect grammar or sophisticated words.
Annie:  Tell us about your passion and list some other projects you have done, if any?
Susan:  I am passionate about sharing the extraordinary experiences, rich stories, and deep history of the Hmong people. I am proud of my heritage and everything about being Hmong fascinates me. I hope that me sharing through my writing will inspire and empower others.
I have been writing for over 10 years now. I have 1 published book, 2 finished but unpublished books, and 5 unfinished books. All my writing and books are about the Hmong people, our history, stories and experiences. I also write Children’s books in Hmong, none published yet.
Annie:  In general, how do you keep inspired through difficult times?
Susan:  I feel so much passion when writing and working on my books, I rarely ever lose inspiration.  It’s the busy times in my life when I am not able to write and work on my books that I feel a bit gloomy.  However, there are times when writing that I am stuck on something and I’m unhappy with my options.  When that happens, I usually will seek consult and inspiration from my husband, my sister Paige and/or my friends.

Annie:  What is your life philosophy?

Susan:  I have my philosophy written on my business card:  You’re only here for a short time. So go confidently in the direction of your dreams and live the life you’ve imagined.
Annie:  What comes to mind when you hear the phrases “What does it mean being a Hmong woman of today?
Susan:  Fortunate to live in a time where Hmong women are powerful beyond measure, contributing to the shaping of the current and future changing roles of a Hmong woman in her home, family, community and in history.
Annie:  Will you have more books coming out?  What’s your next book going to be about?
Susan:  Yes. 2 coming this year, maybe three. 1st one is a book called “Success that looks like me” and 2nd is a Children’s book.
Annie:  How did you balance between being a mother, a wife, a daughter in law and a professional/writer?
Susan:  OMG! It is not easy juggling all the demanding roles of being a Hmong woman today, but I am so fortunate to have a wonderful husband who shares my dreams, encourages me, and helps with the kids so I can write.  I have my best friend and sister Paige who does so much for me when I need help juggling life and kids.  I have a good balance in my life because of the support of my family.  My kids, husband and family always comes first.  Taking care of myself and making time for “me time” is second.  Everything else comes after.  I don’t worry about things that are out of my control and I don’t let myself get stressed out.  I take as much time as I need or want, to relax and enjoy life.
SHORT SENTENCES TO FINISH…
 When I face a big challenge I…
 give it my best shot and learn from my experience.
My greatest fear is…
 losing someone I love.
The most courageous thing I’ve ever done is….
stand up to a mean and toxic grandparent scowling a grandchild.
If I could go back in time to when I was 20 I would tell myself…
 Chase after your real dreams not just money.
I believe….
truth will always prevail.
The biggest lesson I have ever learned is…
 most of the time, you get treated in life the way you teach people to treat you.
My favorite quote/ mantra/ prayer/  is…
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Hmong community needs…
more focus on developing our youth talents and higher education for them.
For more information on Susan Pha, contact or order her book at www.phapublishing.com
Question:  Have you ever thought about writing a book of your own? 
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