How I Come to Love Myself Again

How I Come to Love Myself Again

When we got married, like everyone else, we believed it would be “forever.” I was told that as long as I act, behave and give selflessly, I would never have to worry about my marriage. I was wrong. I have learned through my personal experience that being...
6 Steps to Ease Your Fear

6 Steps to Ease Your Fear

“I’m going to start my own business,” said A. “You’re going to do what?” questioned B. “Start my business,” A said. “What about the money?” B said. “I did the calculations, and I don’t believe it will cost me...
This is Our Time, Our Paintings – A Hmong Woman Artist

This is Our Time, Our Paintings – A Hmong Woman Artist

I didn’t become an artist until late in life at the age of 43 (this year).  By artist, I mean a painter. Visual artist. Even though in elementary school, I won third place in an art contest and had been told by classmates I can draw by seventh grade all hopes of...
Divorce, An End and Beginning

Divorce, An End and Beginning

I was only 14 when I walked through his door for the first time and called his home my own. It was not by force, nor pre-arranged. It was because at 14, before I knew myself—who I was, who I would become—I knew I was in love with this man, and I most certainly did....
6 Reasons Why Going On a Retreat is Good For You

6 Reasons Why Going On a Retreat is Good For You

Each year, I go on a personal retreat without my husband with me. It is not an easy thing to do, but I know I need it if I want to increase my capacity to serve as a mom, a wife and a professional. As a mother and a wife, it may seem selfish, irresponsible and...